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John Abraham, longtime death-with-dignity advocate, said he officially launched the new group, called Choice and Dignity, last week after the nonprofit Final Exit Network announced plans late last year to shut down its handful of affiliates nationwide amid liability concerns.

Abraham said the mission of the new organization is the same as the old one: to advocate for and provide information to people seeking 鈥渟elf-deliverance鈥� from intolerable suffering or end-of-life pain.

鈥淥f the people who come to us, very few hasten their own deaths,鈥� he said. 鈥淚nfinitely more are comforted by knowing they have a way out if they need it.鈥�

Final Exit Network operated in Southern Arizona for more than a decade, and Abraham served as the local chapter鈥檚 leader starting in 2014.

Brian Ruder, board president for the network, said the decision to shut down the affiliates was prompted, at least in part, by the death of a Tucson woman with a degenerative disease who sought the group鈥檚 services but later ended her life 鈥渨ithout going through our process.鈥�

Ruder and Abraham declined to name the woman in question, but both said her death went exactly as she planned it. The problem arose afterward, when her spouse complained that she chose to end her life over his objections.

鈥淭he thing that we are most concerned about is that the family understands the decision and supports it,鈥� Ruder said.

Abraham said he wants that too, but the final choice always rests with the individual. 鈥淕et all the input you can. That鈥檚 great, but ultimately the decision is yours,鈥� he said. 鈥淢y belief lies in individual autonomy.鈥�

Ruder said Final Exit can鈥檛 afford to take chances like that.

鈥淲hat we find is there are people out there who would like to take our organization down,鈥� he said. 鈥淲e try very hard to be as pure as possible, because we don鈥檛 want anyone to be able to say that we鈥檙e doing this for any other reason than we think it鈥檚 a right for people who qualify to be able to end their lives on their terms.鈥�

The 15-year-old nonprofit only had three affiliates. Ruder said the Tucson one was the most active by far, thanks to Abraham鈥檚 efforts. 鈥淛ohn鈥檚 taken it to another level,鈥� he said. 鈥淭o some degree, Final Exit was holding him back. We thought it was time for him to go off and do his own thing.鈥�

鈥淲here Kevorkian got in trouble鈥�

Abraham doesn鈥檛 refer to what he does as assisted suicide. It鈥檚 鈥渄eliberate life completion,鈥� he said, and his group provides 鈥渟upport, not help.鈥�

Though Abraham claims the right-to-die movement鈥檚 largest institutional opponent is the Catholic Church, there is widespread opposition to the practice that has nothing to do with religious belief.

Some doctors and medical ethicists note that only a small percentage of those who seek physician-assisted suicide are terminally ill patients with uncontrollable pain. Instead the decision is often driven by depression, hopelessness and psychological distress 鈥� conditions usually treated with psychiatric intervention, not lethal doses of medication or deadly gases.

Eight states and the District of Columbia now allow physician-assisted suicide, also known as medical aid in dying, under specific circumstances, but Abraham said even those laws don鈥檛 go far enough. They only apply to terminally ill patients in their last few months of life, not those with degenerative disorders such as Alzheimer鈥檚, Lou Gehrig鈥檚 disease or multiple sclerosis that are incurable but indeterminate.

鈥淭hey need to terminate the terminal from the law. It鈥檚 too restrictive,鈥� he said.

Those looking to end their lives in states where it is legal can also struggle to find doctors willing to provide the service or get hit with sizable bills for consultation and medication, Abraham said.

He鈥檚 heard of people having to pay as much as $10,000 just to die, whereas the method promoted by his group and others involves roughly $500 for the mask, inert gas, tubing and other equipment.

Arizona has no assisted suicide laws. Under state statute, a person can be charged with manslaughter for 鈥渋ntentionally providing the physical means that another person uses to commit suicide, with the knowledge that the person intends to commit suicide.鈥�

That鈥檚 why Abraham said he is careful to only provide information and support to qualified individuals who seek his help, namely mentally competent people who can voluntarily and repeatedly articulate their reasons for so-called 鈥渟elf-deliverance鈥� from the existential pain of a hopeless illness.

鈥淭here鈥檚 nothing illegal about giving information,鈥� he said. 鈥淭here鈥檚 nothing illegal about being with someone when they die. You just have to make sure your fingerprints aren鈥檛 on the hood or any of the equipment.鈥�

鈥淭hat鈥檚 where (Dr. Jack) Kevorkian got in trouble,鈥� Abraham added. 鈥淗e went too far. He pushed the button.鈥�

Done lobbying at the Legislature

Choice and Dignity members met on Feb. 4 to select an eight-person board of directors, approve bylaws and settle on the organization鈥檚 name, logo and color scheme 鈥� sort of a blue-green with dark lettering.

The end-of-life advocacy group already has 44 members and a possible bequest from a woman who contacted Abraham on Tuesday and offered to write Choice and Dignity into her will.

鈥淚 hear from people all over the world. I don鈥檛 know how the hell they find me, but they do,鈥� he said.

On March 4, Choice and Dignity will hold a free introductory meeting at 1:30 p.m. at Total Wine and More鈥檚 Park Place mall location on East Broadway.

The organization has also scheduled a series of small discussion groups, end-of-life advocacy training sessions, workshops on preparing advanced medical directives, and something called a Life Completion Class, at which Abraham plans to demonstrate such self-deliverance methods as asphyxiation with nitrogen or helium.

Lobbying state lawmakers will not be part of the new group鈥檚 mission.

Though Abraham said he supports changes to the law, he said he鈥檚 done actively campaigning for them.

鈥淭hat kind of legislation has been introduced every year for the last 30 years in Arizona. It never makes it out of committee. It鈥檚 never going to pass in my lifetime, not with this Legislature. It鈥檚 an exercise in futility.鈥�

Activist prepared for his own death

Death is a big part of Abraham鈥檚 life these days. He has surrounded himself with it.

His modest tract home in Marana is cluttered with books and posters and promotional materials on the subject. On a coffee table shaped like the lid of a coffin, there is a wooden bowl filled with buttons that read, 鈥淟et Me Die Like a Dog.鈥�

Abraham answers the front door in a sweatshirt advertising 鈥渟uffer busters,鈥� a euphemism for the service he provides.

He opens his garage door to reveal what he calls the 鈥渄eath mobile,鈥� a Mazda hatchback decorated with Final Exit magnetic signs and novelty plates that read 鈥淐HOYCES鈥� and 鈥淲EALLDI.鈥�

Abraham said he has been helping people with end-of-life issues his entire adult life, first as an Episcopal priest and then in hospice care, where he has held every job 鈥渇rom president to bedpan changer.鈥�

鈥淚鈥檝e seen people die every which way you can imagine,鈥� he said. 鈥淚 thought there鈥檚 gotta be a better way.鈥�

Abraham joined the right-to-die movement 30 years ago and became a full-time volunteer for the cause in 2013.

He said he has attended 77 deaths and consulted on 100 or more since 1980, including about 60 in the Tucson area.

In 2017, he compiled his knowledge and experience in a book called 鈥淗ow To Get The Death You Want: A Practical And Moral Guide.鈥�

For his part, the 72-year-old said he made all his own arrangements more than a decade ago.

First he drafted advanced directives to guide his end-of-life medical care, then he lined up a strong advocate to see that those directives are followed when the time comes. And should he need to speed things along, he said he鈥檚 already got the necessary equipment all lined up.

Abraham is under no illusions about what鈥檚 coming. He has been a pack-a-day smoker since he was a teenager, and he鈥檚 got the cough to prove it.

鈥淒eath is a natural part of life. Everything begins and ends eventually,鈥� he said with a wave of his cigarette. 鈥淚鈥檓 stupid enough to die one coffin nail at a time.鈥�